For many years I have been a believer in the idea that it is better to be an observer than it is to be an active participant. This philosophy is known as being a “bbw” (bachelor of the sky) and it can be a challenge to maintain this perspective. I am not one to make rash decisions or jump to conclusions, but I do believe it is a bit of an illusion to think we are always “on guard.
This is a belief that has been put to the test by the way I feel about myself and how I am with people. I like to think I’m an easy person to get along with even though I am not really. I’m the type of person that is easy to talk to because I’m not needy and I’m easy to talk to because I don’t want to argue.
You can get along with people by being easy to talk to. It’s a little difficult to be this person, but at least you’re aware of it. At least you know it’s there. It’s a bit like how you know you have a problem with drug addiction. You have to work hard at it to realize it’s there.
I think the main reason I have trouble with people is because I see that part of myself as being more concerned about my feelings than my actions. I think this is why I take so much pride in being an awesome girlfriend. Im not thinking about the good things I can do in my career or to impress people. I feel like Im so good at being a girlfriend because I feel so good about myself.
That’s my take on it, I guess.
I guess that is a bit of a shame too because I think there is a balance between the two. If you are a person who can get up in the morning and do what you really want to do, then you are doing something good. You are not doing something bad because you are in pain. It’s that simple. You are doing something good when you are doing something good for yourself.
But when you are in a relationship and you are doing something that you are not very good at, then you are doing something that is really bad. You are doing something bad because you are in pain. You are doing something that is bad for you because you are in pain.
That’s what I think. I have a friend who has been in a relationship for four years. His “good” side of the relationship is that he is doing something good for the relationship. He is not doing anything that he is not very good at.
This is a common thread running through all of our discussions about love. That there are times when you go through a breakup where you do not want to do anything other than get on the same page and be with the person you love. But as you grow older, you realize you may need a bit more time alone to work on your own. A breakup is a breakup.
In the end, it’s all about how you handle the time you have to spend apart from your partner. How you spend it is also important. So if you’re dating someone with a history of heartbreak, you need to have a plan for how to avoid the heartbreak of a breakup.